Parental Cruelty?

image from Rest for the Weary

Admit it, eagle cams have hooked a lot of us. Redding and Big Bear in CA, over 50 in all. We eagerly watch the hatching, the fledging, the first flights. And I’ve picked up a lesson from them, one we might all use.

Months building the nest

months bringing sticks

months bringing moss and grass

months plucking down from their breasts

as the prospective eagle parents bond

forming a soft and comfortable home

for their young to grow in

 

for their young to leave

            not pushed out

            but strongly encouraged

by stirring up the nest

pulling out the moss and grass

pulling out the down

revealing sharp sticks

            that prick

food not given parental mouth to baby mouth

            but on a branch yards away

 

parental cruelty?

merely

            making flight a necessity

            to reach their destiny

 

What’s the issue? Inappropriate contentment. Being OK with just OK. The eagle parents soften the nest for their young, until it’s time for them to move out, to fly, to reach their destiny. To encourage them to leave the comfortable nest where they are fed, the eagles follow the design God uses with his people, “like an eagle that stirs up its nest” (Deuteronomy 32:11).

We work hard to find a comfortable state, but maybe God wants us to spread our wings. To fly. To bring him more honor. To serve him more strategically. Often, the good is the enemy of the best. Have you ever thought that not exploring options means you just might think you have the perfect life? One that cannot be improved?

Kick Starting the Application

Do you sense God stirring up your nest, to move beyond your comfort zone for something better? If you don’t, are you willing to let him do some stirring? What are your objections?